Doctor: Here, fill out this questionnaire, and please have your mom fill out this one.

Me: Okay

When diagnosing a high performing person, the diagnostician should look for evidence that performance lags behind potential.

I wouldn't say my ADHD is a gift or a curse, it just is.

When executive functions fail, people have difficulty with:

“Habits do not restrict freedom. They create it. In fact, the people who don’t have their habits handled are often the ones with the least amount of freedom.

"I'm so impatient!" is how the conversation started. She had thought this way about herself for years, and others reinforced this thinking. But the problem wasn't impatience.

Your brain is a car. Everyone else's cars do exactly what they should. Every so often, other people have trouble with their cars, but their cars get fixed and continue to operate as they should. Their cars get places on time and never cause their owners' significant stress.

Here is a hint: it starts with M, is a 4 syllable word and research shows it is the most effective treatment for ADHD….medication. Not convinced? Read these comments on Reddit from people who take medication for their ADHD.

I felt immense relief after being diagnosed with ADHD. It was great to finally know why I was struggling with my daily activities. It wasn’t laziness, it wasn’t a lack of intelligence, and it wasn’t “just a quirk.”

Having to explain what ADHD is like to those who’ve known me for most of my life has probably been one of the most challenging parts of my late ADHD diagnosis.

It was one thing to struggle for over 20 years. But it was another to revisit the past. All the decisions I made just to get by — like placing my goals and plans on hold simply because “things just weren’t working out this time.”

I haven’t always felt comfortable disclosing my ADHD — especially in the workplace. I’d have a lot of anxiety about being vulnerable and honest with people who in the end may not even understand my challenges. So instead of sharing, I’d mask my ADHD and try my best to hide my challenges.

In Latin culture, learning differences are rarely talked about. They’re silenced and ignored out of fear that admitting these issues makes one seem “weak.” And in my household, my parents were no different.

For a long time, my mother didn’t want me to meet with a psychiatrist to find out why I was anxious all the time.

But throughout my academic years, I struggled to get through each assignment and exam. I was frustrated, I cried, and I wasn’t sure what to do. The help my parents could give was limited because they faced a language barrier that made it difficult. So, I fought hard for the grades that got me labeled as the “smart one.”

While I was in college, I studied long and hard for exams. I needed to. And I thought everyone else did, too. So, it drove me insane to hear other students talk about how little they would study, and how unprepared they felt the day of an exam — only to find out they aced it. They always aced it. Not me.

My constant state? Tired. I can sleep through the night, drink coffee in the morning, and sit in the sun for optimal vitamin D absorption. But even after my midday coffee and my prescribed stimulant medication that helps me focus, I’m still tired.

When I first received my ADHD diagnosis—and started treatment — I thought life would begin to work out the way I thought it was supposed to. But I quickly learned that wasn’t going to be the case.

Imagine someone has invited you for tea and they keep filling your cup until it is overflowing. You are surprised, and cry out them, “Watch what you’re doing! Can’t you see that the cup can’t hold any more.? It’s overflowing.”

As you look at each item, ask yourself:

· What are my reasons for keeping this? Are they valid reasons?

Today, I realized that ADHD is no longer a big issue in my life. Initially, I couldn't put my finger on when it became a nothing burger for me, but it has. Perhaps learning how I journeyed to wholeness will benefit you.