What to Do When Parents Mess Up
Focus on mending the relationship.
The key is humility and authenticity. Neurodivergent kids crave realness, so don’t be afraid to apologize when you mess up. It’s not about giving up power; it’s about building trust.
Apologies should take ownership without blaming others. They strengthen your relationship by showing your child you’re human, too.
Another tip is to engage with what your kids love, even if it’s not your thing. Whether it’s anime, video games, or dinosaurs, show interest in their world. This investment in their interests makes them more likely to connect with you on your terms later.
Remember, the best parenting is ego-less—it’s about your child, not you. So, embrace their interests as a way to build a stronger bond.