Pro Tips for Outsmarting Your ADHD from Adults in the Know!

Bite your tongue when others are talking. Let them finish, and don't try to finish what they are saying because you think you know what's coming next.

Immediately put upcoming obligations on your phone calendar and set two reminder alerts; you will rarely miss anything or disappoint anyone due to forgetting.

Only start one thing at a time

Use maps wherever you go

Timers. I have a timer on my watch and set it any time I sit down, pick up my phone, or do anything where I may zone out. Setting a timer helps with time blindness.

Attempt fewer things

Have less stuff

Make a digital list of tasks based on the time they will take to complete so when I get an unexpected 5 min, 10 min, or an hour I spend less time deciding what will use my time most effectively.

Use the Pomodoro method--work for a set period, then take a set amount of break, then return to work.

Tape notes when you can't avoid seeing them--the bathroom faucet and the front door knob.

Set alarms

Use planners

Write down EVERYTHING! No matter how often you tell yourself that you will, you will not remember.

Time's how long regular tasks take you, so you know how long they genuinely take

Work with a therapist to undo the self-inflicted trauma from years of negative self-talk.

Clear (as in see-through) storage containers

Learn mindfulness

Work in bursts and then rest (physically or mentally) before doing the next thing.

Store important stuff where it makes sense to look for it. Never put essential things in random places.

The wallpaper on my phone lists my bills and when they're due. It's helped me prevent impulsive spending. When I have money, I want to spend it on something fun and forget how much money I need to save for upcoming bills.

Don't put it down, put it away (We all know that if we plan to 'do it later,' we won't, haha)

Be kind to yourself....and nap when required!

Cynthia Hammer, MSW

Cynthia Hammer, MSW, was diagnosed with inattentive ADHD in 1992 when she was 49 years old. The following year she created the non-profit organization, ADD Resources, with a mission to educate adults and helping professionals about ADHD in adults. She ran the organization for 15 years before retiring.

During the Covid isolation she wrote a book about her life with inattentive ADHD which should be published by the end of this year. In writing the book, she was dismayed to learn that children with inattentive ADHD continue to be under-diagnosed and adults with inattentive ADHD often are incorrectly diagnosed with depression or anxiety.

She created a new non-profit in 2021, the Inattentive ADHD Coalition (www.iadhd.org), to create more awareness about inattentive ADHD and the need for early diagnosis and treatment.

https://www.iadhd.org
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